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Mom Regrets Not Aborting Son With Down Syndrome: I Would’ve Killed Him if I Could
Life News ^ | 10/23/14 | Steven Ertelt

Posted on 10/23/2014 9:15:24 AM PDT by wagglebee

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To: DJ MacWoW

Just look who this compassionate Freeper argues to the death for politically on FR. Regularly. Mitt Romney.

All you need to know.


61 posted on 10/23/2014 10:47:19 AM PDT by Norm Lenhart ("Refusing to vote against unprincipled people made Obama President. " - agere_contra)
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To: Nea Wood
Well said. I know if the father instead of the mother had been quoted, saying the exact same words, the responses here would not be as harsh or profane.

Fathers are powerless in the face of a mother's decision to abort or not to abort. Ultimately, the life or death of the child is in the mother's hands, legally and morally. Therefore, she bears the brunt of making ugly self-centered statements about wishing she'd aborted her child because she's the one who makes the decision. Not the father. Like it or not, that's the way it is.

62 posted on 10/23/2014 10:47:52 AM PDT by RegulatorCountry
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To: wagglebee

I wish her mother had aborted her.


63 posted on 10/23/2014 10:49:41 AM PDT by YourAdHere (I just took a big Obama.)
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To: Norm Lenhart; DJ MacWoW; cherry
Just look who this compassionate Freeper argues to the death for politically on FR. Regularly. Mitt Romney.

Why am I not surprised? They probably think Myth will have a better chance if he just announces that he's always been pro-abortion.

64 posted on 10/23/2014 10:50:04 AM PDT by wagglebee ("A political party cannot be all things to all people." -- Ronald Reagan, 3/1/75)
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To: Truth is a Weapon
To have thoughts like that from time to time is human. Certainly ugly but human. To vocalize them makes one a monster. Some tempting thought should never be said because of the harm done to others.
What if this woman’s mother said, “if I known my selfish bitch of a daughter was going to say that when she was an adult, I would have aborted her”?

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Well said.

65 posted on 10/23/2014 10:50:17 AM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: wagglebee

Well many of them including the recently departed Hildy sure seems to have shared his love of it. I think it carries to a lot of them. Otherwise why do they keep fighting for Rs squishy on social issues?


66 posted on 10/23/2014 10:54:56 AM PDT by Norm Lenhart ("Refusing to vote against unprincipled people made Obama President. " - agere_contra)
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To: wagglebee

It’s distressing to see someone writing something like this about her son, and why? To support abortion, imho. I could certainly understand her talking privately to her husband, priest, friend or relative when things seem overwhelming, but why do this publicly?

It’s wrong.


67 posted on 10/23/2014 10:57:23 AM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: wagglebee

The “selfish bitch” has been caring for this 47-year-old child day after day, morning til night, f0r 47 years. He’s healthy, doesn’t look abused.

I don’t want to judge her.


68 posted on 10/23/2014 10:59:28 AM PDT by Veto! (Opinions freely dispensed as advice)
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To: trisham

Because ‘they’ are wrong. They bought the lies of the left and think they are supreme. All must make them happy.

they are an affront to the natural order. They want their participation trophy and it’s unfair that they are so burdened.


69 posted on 10/23/2014 11:00:18 AM PDT by Norm Lenhart ("Refusing to vote against unprincipled people made Obama President. " - agere_contra)
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To: Veto!

Plenty of battered women look fine and happy too.


70 posted on 10/23/2014 11:00:58 AM PDT by Norm Lenhart ("Refusing to vote against unprincipled people made Obama President. " - agere_contra)
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To: wagglebee
I'm not fit to judge her nor her honesty expressed at this stage in her life of struggling with the cross she bears.

My youth gave me a lot of experience with Downs kids, or TRs as I heard them called back then, and a perspective to appreciate some of her challenges, but I have no idea what sacrifices she and her family have made and how much love and stamina she has left.

I can appreciate her concerns for his care after her death and the helplessness she might feel with that challenge.

I imagine she faces quite a few similar level challenges on a routine basis. Those can take a toll on one's attitude and outlook as demonstrated by the sentiments she expresses.

71 posted on 10/23/2014 11:01:44 AM PDT by GBA (Can we play follow the leader now instead of follow the lemming?)
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To: Norm Lenhart

I know it’s trite, but whenever I think I am overly burdened, I realize very quickly by just listening to other people that I am really very blessed.

This woman’s husband and two children are still living. She and her husband are in fairly good health. They are not poor. That is much to celebrate.


72 posted on 10/23/2014 11:03:42 AM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: trisham
It’s distressing to see someone writing something like this about her son, and why? To support abortion, imho. I could certainly understand her talking privately to her husband, priest, friend or relative when things seem overwhelming, but why do this publicly?

Of course it's about supporting abortion.

This woman wishes EVERY DAY that she had killed her son. It's not a passing thought that she sometimes feels in moments of extreme anger or frustration, it's what she has felt every day for 47 years.

73 posted on 10/23/2014 11:04:29 AM PDT by wagglebee ("A political party cannot be all things to all people." -- Ronald Reagan, 3/1/75)
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To: cherry; wagglebee; GeronL

My BFF walks in her shoes. Walks alone mind you because she’s a widow. Everything this couple talks about, I have seen first hand.

I would have more respect for this woman if she said “I wish I had given him up for adoption” or “I wish we had put him in an institution” or even today says “we can’t take it anymore” just out right puts him in a group home with other Trisomy 21 people. Anything but says “I wish I had aborted him” That so send the wrong message to women who are right now pregnant with a baby with Trisomy 21.


74 posted on 10/23/2014 11:04:46 AM PDT by Morgana ( Always a bit of truth in dark humor.)
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To: Mrs. Don-o

Yes. It could have been far worse for her. But like many she is too stupid to realize that.


75 posted on 10/23/2014 11:07:57 AM PDT by jocon307
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To: trisham

I lost my wife at 29 to cancer and had to raise a daughter as a single parent. When I look at this idiot whineing about abortion and how she wishes her son were dead, and when I look at people on this thread excusing her comments, it really takes me back.


76 posted on 10/23/2014 11:12:17 AM PDT by Norm Lenhart ("Refusing to vote against unprincipled people made Obama President. " - agere_contra)
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To: Norm Lenhart

I’m very sorry, Norm.


77 posted on 10/23/2014 11:13:16 AM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: trisham

You gotta deal with what you’re given. I did. Millions have. And damn few us ever sought death as the answer. The ones that dis are no better than she is.


78 posted on 10/23/2014 11:15:10 AM PDT by Norm Lenhart ("Refusing to vote against unprincipled people made Obama President. " - agere_contra)
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To: wagglebee
Say what you want about her. What she said was definitely stupid but consider that she has cared for this severely disabled son for nearly half a century so I think the abuse being heaped on her in this thread is unwarranted. I'm sure she has no desire to kill her son now and she actually appears more worried about what will happen to him after she dies.

Is anybody throwing stones at her offering to adopt her son after she dies? I don't see any volunteers stepping up to the plate here.

I refuse to cast stones at this woman. I'm only about 50 years old and I raised two healthy sons who are now out of the house and on their own, which allows my wife and I to pretty much do whatever we please. This woman is 70 years old and has probably not had a carefree day since I was a toddler myself. Hell, she couldn't even go on a vacation with her husband to Greece.

I'm not casting stones at her. She has my sympathy.

79 posted on 10/23/2014 11:19:14 AM PDT by SamAdams76
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To: wagglebee
"‘He’s a mongol, isn’t he?’ I gasped to my mother. It sounds shocking now but that was how we used to describe people with Down’s Syndrome in those days."

Uh...no. Not nearly as shocking as hearing you reiterate that you wish every day that he was dead.

80 posted on 10/23/2014 11:21:38 AM PDT by CatherineofAragon ((Support Christian white males---the architects of the jewel known as Western Civilization.))
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