That’s because feminism is all about being a victim. Being an armed woman is all about not being a victim.
I've never heard that about feminism. But you are 100% correct.
Being armed is good. Being with a couple of very protective dogs is good too, both at home and on the streets. The dogs give a woman (or man) time to pull out the gun.
My choice is a nice little Beretta. My husband taught me to shoot it. I got so I could hit Osama bin Laden's beard 9/10 times at twenty feet.