“Gay men shouldn’t marry women. “
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Of course they shouldn’t but in the post to which I responded you blamed the woman for her choice. They often don’t know that the man is gay.
In both of the instances I know the women came from strict,old-country homes and married quite young. They were blindsided.
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Likewise, the man may not have known, particularly if he married young or came from a strict, old-country home. But I'm dumbstruck by the fact that the author of this silly screed is primarily upset at her ex husband for leaving her, not for marrying her. Sure she could be the naive victim, but my guess is she knew.