She would have had to lose 100+ pounds first. Maybe the task was just more than she could do.
I recall seeing a post here where lesbians tended to be overweight to obese. I’m no shrink, but I think it is the first line of defense against getting hit on by guys, then the guys get blamed (for not hitting on them) and the fugue is on...layers of problems and resentments, there. I can’t honestly say I have ever seen one who really seemed happy.
Are you suggesting that fat people have to be homosexual? That’s a bit weird.