Yes you can go to confession and be in a state of grace.The crazy thing about this is one partner does not want to divorce.They are force to through our courts.My sister received the last Rites and she was married to a divorced man for 40 years.His wife divorced him and he didn’t want it.He was also a non-catholic and felt with an annulment it would label his kids.He would not annul-she died in a state of grace.
What about him?