Yes, I agree.
But I am not conflating my fear of punishment with good parenting. Only defending corporal punishment when it is being attacked, which is rampant.
It is only 1 aspect, for sure, but likely crucial along with those other aspects.
My son has not been spanked, maybe some small slaps when he was very little, but nothing at all major or memorable. He is very sensitive and also has been conditioned to behave well as well as has the natural tendencies to avoid troubles of any kind. E.g., never being “handy” by always grabbing things or wanting to make messes, especially vandalizing things. Always very careful. He crumbles at a firm voice. So he has not needed physical punishment. But he will also know we are not afraid to use the hands.
It is parenting that is directly under attack. The Devil doesn’t want good parenting or good families.
You might enjoy this book: http://www.amazon.com/The-Power-Positive-Parenting-Wonderful/dp/1567131751/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1410580775&sr=8-1&keywords=power+of+positive+parenting
How old is your son?
I rarely ever had to resort to physical punishment for my kids.
I needed a lot more than they did, because I was willful and insolent.
My grandkids only need the scare of "Would your mom want to see the house like this?"
Me? age 5, I'd make a rude gesture and suggest you catch me.
Not conducive to a pain-free childhood.
/johnny