rhema:
If women as a group decided to wait until marriage before giving a man her body would this man still feel the same way about moving from girl to girl? I do not know what one woman can do in our culture, but if the entire female gender decided sex before marriage was bad, I am pretty sure the men would become much more interested in marriage. Just my two cents.
Wouldn’t that result in a lot of men that don’t really want to be married, getting married just to have sex? Is that acceptable?
I agree with you. I have 3 sons. The oldest has been married and bandied the idea of he & his fiancé living together before they got married. He respected our opinion and didn’t. #2 son..smiled and said that financially it made more sense for them, she was moving in from another state..... they are getting married next May, we aren’t happy but he’s 27. #3 son, engaged, buying a house, so far the subject has not been broached. He’s getting married in December...... They just don’t see it like we do. It’s no big deal they say.