Yep. Some of the nastiest intra family battles will be over who gets grandma’s money.
I learned how to avoid that personally. I am completely out of the decision loop on family inheritance. If I get something, nice. If I don’t get something, life will go on.
I don’t have to live with myself. The people who would cheat me out of my inheritance would have to live with themselves.
I can live with that.
I’ve seen families do all sort of idiotic things. Some of it makes no sense whatsoever. It’s just mean vindictive payback in some instances for absolutely nothing.
It’s a shame really, what people do to those they should care about.