[defconw]

Having worked private security. I have supervised officers. I know what happened, the security officer was less than polite with his request for the man to move on. He threw an attitude at the man. I stress with my guys that there is a right way and a wrong way to talk to someone.

Wrong: Hey you can't be here this is private property.

Right: Good Afternoon, can I help you find something sir? You probably didn't know that this is private property.

Or for the love of God and all that is Holy, if he was just sitting there not bothering anyone and the client did not ask for him to be removed, just leave him alone.

I have dealt with my share of wanna be cops. Now that I do the hiring, I won't hire these jokers.

[dennisw]

A--Wrong: Hey you can't be here this is private property.

B--Right: Good Afternoon, can I help you find something sir? You probably didn't know that this is private property.

With me I am up and moving with A or B
But with an entitled black dude you must use B

IOW --- "A" is not a blow to my psyche. I just shrug and move on. But with others you have to walk on eggshells