[untenured]

"She's hurting," said Decarreau, who has been in touch with the woman. "She didn't realize this is what would happen. If there's a lesson, it's that [online forums] are not the way to deliver a message to an individual or agency. You need to reach out directly to people."

The lesson I would've drawn is that perhaps some messages, especially those involving How Offended I AM, shouldn't be delivered on any medium.

[fungoking]

“She's hurting,” said Decarreau, who has been in touch with the woman. “She didn't realize.....

...how many people would point out what an idiot she is, her only hope now is that her name doesn't become public so she can remain an anonymous idiot.

[certrtwngnut]

Screw the perpetually offended. Lets get back to jokes about Wops, Micks, Spics, Pollocks, Krauts, and any others that you can name. Although I would draw the line at Porch Monkey and some others. That could be offensive.