Just after I replied to you, the house alarm went off. One of my daughters, forgot to silence the alarm (on a 20 second delay). Shit is real, and your job as parent is to be careful and not think everyone coming in is a target. She apologized, I’m happy she’s okay.
As am I. I believe I made it clear that when you have children in the home, you have to come up with a method of challenging. It puts you at more risk, but it’s something you have to do. Still, in these situations folks don’t always do the right things, even when they’re supposed to be professionals. This sort of thing can happen. You wish it wouldn’t, but it’s not gross negligence either. I sure don’t see it that way.