Having a baby out of wedlock is not the worst thing that can happen to a woman.
when I was a young girl, I thought I was pregnant.
My older by many years sisters all told me to have an abortion, to spare my mom the humiliation.
It turned out to be a false alarm, anyways, and I married the young man, anyways.
BUT I am still to this day surprised that they felt that way. That was the worst thing that could have happened to our family.
Being aborted is the worst thing that can happen to a baby.