Why didn’t they, knowing he was likely to die, preplan his funeral? I mean Julion, you or your “husband” could have asked first.
Just Sayin’
Yes, they should have asked about it. Unless they were looking for a high profile target of their anger. Some consider death a defeat, a crime, a matter of someone having ‘failed’ and that someone will have to be made to pay. That’s not always the case. A certain amount of discretion would have also been helpful. If you’re going to air all your “dirty” laundry, be ready when someone reacts.
Piss on the faggot’s grave. That is proper recognition for his life of being gay!