[defconw]

You're a smart man! :) I am still trying to get my husband to pay attention to that. I guess it's harder for some men. It's not what people say it's how they say it often.

Maybe women are more attuned to it because we spend more time taking care of babies and pets that can't talk then men generally do.

[chesley]

Well, it took me a while, but I found out that if she said someone was a backstabber, that person was a backstaber, no question.