Read the story! the child was with her 17 yo sister. I was a mother at that age w/husband.
Ok. We get it. You were a mother at 17.
Did you send your 4 year old daughter to a foreign country illegally with a 17 year old family member?
No. Probably not.
There is no excuse for this. None. I don’t care if she sent the kid with Santa Claus. No excuse.