Someone here will probably remember an essay which has been posted on FR, by a Jewish writer or rabbi, explaining the purpose of marriage as God ordained it, and how civilization was eventually transformed because of the Jewish restrictions that curbed male omnisexuality.
This writer is completely opposed to homosexuality, pedophilia, and other perversions, but he does regard them as the natural state and appetite of man, man without God.
Is this the article you’re talking about?
It’s by conservative Jewish talk show host Dennis Prager-
http://catholiceducation.org/articles/sexuality/ho0003.html
The essay you refer to was penned by Dennis Prager. Sexuality is so powerful that men will do just about anything for gratification. Without the Torah there is no reason to restrict that drive. Even very intelligent, astute leaders fall prey to the sexual appetite. What Torah gives us is a Law and a Relationship with the Lawgiver. Knowledge. Covenant. Identity. And ultimately Wisdom, the ability to discern the difference between what we can do, and what we should do. As the Nazirine said, “You know the commandments. Do them and live.” Oh yes, and he said “Every one of them.” The Word of G-d is not a buffet line.