Then where are you going to live? Landlords won’t rent to you with a foreclosure on your record and you obviously cannot purchase another home for many years until your credit is built back up.
Bleed to death slowly or leave while you have the means. The smart approach is to never settle in a liberal cesspool from the start. I moved out of CA in Dec 2000. I rent a room in San Diego. My wife and kids are comfortable in Idaho. I’m uncomfortable, but able to walk away immediately if necessary.