A little blunter way to put it:
.........current law is that mommy can kill the baby but daddy can’t..........
but...but its just a ball of cells, not life right? So what’s the big deal? She’s just gonna miss out on some baby shower gifts. He should only have to pay restitution for missed shower gifts!
The truth is, in the eyes of the law it is only a "baby" if the mother wants it. Otherwise it is just tissue. This is fundamental logical construct which enables abortion on demand but charges people for double murder if they kill a pregnant woman.