With you.
During my time I saw many a young man get his life off the rails because of a marriage before he was ready.
Many times it was the local gal that did the trapping (’get me outta here’), and poor Sammy Soldier was homesick, thinking he is all manly (’tough soldier’) and he got laid (possibly for the first time and then thinks he is in love).
If I had a dime for all of the Jarheads I knew in my career who fell in love (and wanted to marry) whores overseas.... well I’d have a lot of dimes.