In 366 you lied, you had agreed that marriage should be purely a religious matter, Islam is religion and atheism is not.
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So what? I said that the religious can define marriage however they want. Atheists can define marriage how they want.
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In 367 you say that the military does not need to have a definition of wife or widow, you dont know anything about a military life, or death, do you?
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Survivor would be the designation I would use.
So you want marriage to cease to exist, and to just let people call whatever they want, marriage.
And you want all of those relationships treated as and funded as “marriage” in the military?