“I contend that if I’m paying for school or medical treatment for someone over 18, I should have access to documentation regarding what I’m paying for. But colleges and doctors have to follow the law.”
Yes; that’s why you should insist that your adult offspring sign a Buckley Amendment waiver, in the case of college expenses, if you are paying the cost.
I did.
He was happy to.
Great kid, great young adult. You’d love him.