Here at Free Republic, we PING someone to a post whenever mentioning them by name. In conservative circles -- alien territory to you, doubtless -- we routinely refer to that sort of thing as "common courtesy."
I'm sorry your father molested you.
I'm sorry you lost so publicly, and so humiliatingly.
Well... no. Not really.
I will note that you are unable to argue on the merits: that there are degrees of evil. Better discussion for a philosophy thread, though, and it will give you time to study.