Gay or straight is an intellectual decision.
Masculine or Feminine attraction is the dominating factor for attraction. If it is intellectually unacceptable for a feminine man to be with a masculine man in a gay relationship, he will merely search for a masculine woman.
Even in gay relationships you will almost always find one dominant masculine and one dominate feminine personality. I say almost always as I have found one relationship where two masculine women formed a relationship and adopted a daughter. The lack of balance between the parents has really screwed up the daughter. The masculine aspect of consciousness does not feel the presence of love, it observes actions and makes conclusions as to what the feeling should be. It does however recognize the absence of love or emptiness feeling when it is removed. The feminine recognizes the feeling of the presence of love. All this is a function of how the two aspects of consciousness store, process and retrieve memories. The end result was that the daughter with two masculine mothers had virtually no bonding foundation which happens between the young child and the feminine parent.
I work quite a bit with gays and lesbians in psychological testing of development and can usually identify the point in their life where the became gay. It is caused by a shift in consciousness patterns and is easy to demonstrate, even in a scientific setting. I don’t judge anyone, I just help them understand why!
“Ok so how does he explain why long time dads “go gay” especially as they age?”
As people age, they tend to shift to more gender neutral, just as a young child is prior to puberty. In old age it is normal for men to become more feminine and women to become more masculine... Just look at Helen Thomas! Humor intended!
Interesting. Human sexuality, like everything else, is a lot more complicated than anybody really understands.
Yeah but this whole thing is premised on “That’s just the way they are.” If it’s genetics then how’s it happening with men that were perfectly capable of fathering children, and now they’re homosexual? Or moms that family lawyers will say they’re seeing more leaving marriages for same sex partners? I don’t think so. While there are those that one can readily tell were “Born that way” there are many more who choose that “orientation” because they hate their ex, they hate the other gender, they can’t get a date, they can’t get laid, they want the easy way out.