If it last 4 yrs, he'll try for 8...& the GoP-e won't allow other suitors.
Or just as bad, you pick one she wont marry...
So? As you said, there's a "next groom...someone you approve of." So, no marriage -- and having to wait 4 yrs for someone better to come along -- is better than a horrific marriage.
Father God, we repent of the evil we do and have done, forgive us, restore our nation to the former faith and values that followed thy WORD, We are filled with gratitude for the mercy, goodness, and grace offered to us today, in Jesus name, amen.