So your spiritual gift is to dash the good thoughts of others... bully for you my friend, bully for you... impetuousness is not a spiritual gift.
Actually, the only GOOD thing comes from above - and that always points to the sufficiency of Christ Jesus and to the need of man for repentance for man's works. To say that God NEEDS a man in heaven for whatever reason is to undermine the holiness and sovereignty of God. It may seem to you that it is "dashing" the good thoughts of someone, but if those those are dashing the character of God then they are not "good" thought. Oh, they might be pleasant ones to people's ear, but not to God.
Actually, topping my spiritual gifts are discernment and the speaking out of God's truth. Not popular ones by any means to those who cling to man-centered and not God-centered ideas - which is always our nature to want to do until He brings us into repentance. Why do you think that is impetuous? Why the name calling?