“I am TIRED of the attack on men in this country!!!”
Me too, but as a man, I came to the conclusion a few years back that men can’t really do much about it. A “few bad apples”, as they say, in the female population, have been poisoning the well of relations between the sexes in our country for a long time. A lot of gullible men have helped them too, so there’s plenty of guilt to go around.
Still, when men speak out against this stuff, our voices are easily marginalized, by accusing us of mysogyny, or saying we are losers who can’t get a date, or we’re bitter from bad experiences with women, etc. Add to that the fact that men will never show any kind of solidarity on these matters, because so many men are in a “Stockholm syndrome” mentality, where they will agree with anything women say in order to not jeopardize their chances of getting laid. Nothing will change until the majority of women get fed up with this nonsense and start shouting the harpies down.
I will shout them down. I have a good man who loves and cares for me. He still treats me like a lady and I respect and honor him. Am I always the perfect wife? NO! Am I ever the perfect wife? NO! But I love him and I appreciate that he is manly and stands up to me when I try to usurp his authority. I also appreciate that he will hear me when I speak, consider my needs and apologize to me when he has not taken my needs into consideration. I will also apologize to him when I have asked too much and not given enough. Marriage is a give and take. It is not one sided.
My husband is a good man. My dad is a good man. We have a church FULL of good men. They love God, their country, their wives and their children. And I appreciate them.