“... fiancee decided that he was gay 6 weeks before the temple wedding...”
Take comfort in the fact you found out before marriage and children. When I was a teen, a neighbor lady thought her husband of 15 years was cheating. Well, he was. It just wasn’t with a woman. He left his wife and two daughters for his new boyfriend. The daughters took it especially hard. One girl was just entering the puberty years and became depressed to the point that she needed to go to a psychiatrist. The youngest daughter completely lost her bubbly personality. Both girls grades dropped dramatically. My granny had a saying... “knowing something before you walk down the aisle and before you walk down the aisle are two different things”. Just a thought.
Oops, need more coffee. Granny said, “knowing something before you walk down the aisle and AFTER you walk down the aisle are two different things”. Sorry.
I am very glad I found out before the wedding instead of years (and kids later).
It was devastating at the time, but less than a year later, God brought a childhood friend back into my life, we started dating and eventually got married.
We just celebrated our 15th anniversary and still act like newlyweds (which drives my mother in law crazy).
So, in a very big way, God was protecting me before I even knew Him and leading me to where (and whom) He wanted me to be.