Posted on 04/22/2010 9:17:52 PM PDT by Iron Munro
TAMPA - The din of Room 168 at the Economy Inn on East Busch Boulevard occasionally drowned out conversation.
Twelve children ranging in age from 6 months to 11 years old spent the past week there, scrambling across the floor, bouncing on beds. Their eyes filled with resignation Wednesday morning; they were hungry and dirty - wearing the same clothes as the day before and the day before that.
Angel Adams, the mom, was asking for help as the children rambled about the room. She was homeless and hopeless, she said. A relative paid for the motel room for a week, and after that, who knows. Her fiance is in prison.
With measured indignation, Adams said somebody owes her.
By the end of the day Wednesday, help had arrived.
Nick Cox, regional director of the Florida Department of Children & Families, paid Adams a visit and, standing outside the motel room with all 12 children present, offered a solution. He said there was room at A Kid's Place in Brandon, a cottage large enough to house a family of 12. Though wary of the offer, Adams agreed.
The lifelong Tampa resident said she wants justice from the Hillsborough County Sheriff's Office child protection team that took her kids away from her two years ago and from Hillsborough Kids Inc., which got her kids back six months ago.
"What do I do?" she said earlier in the day. "I have no answers. My family has been railroaded. Someone needs to pay.
"Nobody's helping me."
She doesn't trust the system, she said. It was a system that despite all the good intentions landed her in the motel, in this fix, in the first place, she said.
Wednesday morning, in the dingy motel room, Adams handed out a list of her children's names and ages. Across the top: "Three fathers. One Mother. Fifteen Children."
One of them, a 1-year-old, is named John the Baptist Brown.
Ten of the children, she said, were fathered by Garry Brown, currently serving a five-year prison term for dealing cocaine. A sampling of his kids' names: Garry Nesha, Garry Brown Jr., Garry Lethia, Garryiell and Garry Rick.
Cuban sandwiches and packaged noodles were donated during the motel stay. In the room, a microwave sat on top of a small refrigerator. No stove. One sink. One toilet. One shower. Everyone walked barefoot over a grimy green carpet.
The smell of dirty diapers filled the room. Jerome, 11, gave Andrew, 6 months, a bottle. "This is not comfortable," Jerome said.
The baby coughed and spit up on Jerome's hand. He didn't flinch and patted the baby on the back.
"The girls sleep on one bed," Adams said. "The boys sleep on the other. I just crash on the floor."
The 12 kids are the youngest of 15, she said. Three have "aged out," meaning they have turned 18 and are on their own, no longer a part of the child welfare system.
"I can have as many as I want to," she said. All her kids, she added, "are gifts from God."
The 37-year-old mother doesn't work. "This is my work," she said, gesturing toward the bunch. "I do this all by myself. I don't know what I'm going to do. This is a revolving door going nowhere."
She said her problems began two years ago when Brown was arrested and the money dried up. Right after that her children were taken away and put in foster care over allegations of neglect, she said.
Hillsborough Kids stepped in and took the case, eventually returning the children to her and Brown. Before Christmas, the couple took a two-bedroom apartment off North Boulevard near Columbus Drive.
Hillsborough Kids agreed to pay the $800 a month rent after caseworkers inspected the apartment and, although finding it a bit cramped, said it was OK.
The landlord, who evicted Adams in March, thought differently.
Sandy Chiellini said Adams showed up to sign the lease with Brown and one child. She didn't learn until later that there were 11 other children. There were problems with plumbing; downstairs tenants were flooded. There was noise. Occasional visits from police. Other tenants were complaining. Some left.
She said Adams' apartment was trashed. Clothes and food were scattered everywhere. Screens were broken out. Chiellini began eviction proceedings. Adams failed to show up for two eviction hearings.
Chiellini said Adams and her children left on April 15, taking only the clothes on their backs.
Cox said opinions about Adams aside, the children are the main concern. He said she loves the kids and they love her, and the department does not want to split the family.
Lodging at A Kid's Place is temporary, and department caseworkers will have to figure out how to place the Adams family in a permanent home. That's down the road, he said. For now, at least they are out of the hotel room.
"My children fear DCF," Adams told Cox outside the motel room Wednesday afternoon. "I do, too."
"I want to make sure right now you and your kids are not living in a hotel room," he responded.
Still, Adams was hesitant. She wanted to know about the long term.
"I need money," she said. "I need transportation. My children need a place to live."
Hillsborough Kids spokesman Elaine Olszewski said her agency has been working with Adams for months, and there is a system of support at work behind the scenes.
Case managers have been in constant contact with Adams, Olszewski said.
Typically, single moms in similar situations have frequent visits by caseworkers, who work with charities in the community and coordinate grant money to pay for services.
"It's on a case-by-case basis," she said. "It's not that we would financially support them, but we are connected to community partners that provide assistance."
The goal when children are removed from the home is to get them back with their parents, she said, and caseworkers try to work to that end.
"Children always are better with their biological parents," she said. "Once we determine they are safe and everything is appropriate, there's a six-month period when they still are technically in the system. We continue to monitor the kids."
She said all the children of school age are enrolled and going to school, although Adams said they have not attended classes since she took up residence in the hotel. She said she can't get them to school.
"There's a lot of support out there," Olszewski said, "and we kind of direct them. She has the support from the community, churches and family members."
John the Baptist Brown ping.
Getting them away from you would be a huge leap in that direction.
Why am I not surprised at the race of this bunch?
You have to read this one.
Does this mean we have to pay for locusts and wild honey?
Hint: Don't have children with a drug-dealing narcissist.
Your name’s not Garry.
I am usually against the state intruding on the womb, but “chronics” such as this woman make me consider the fact that tubal ligation should be required for those who have proven unable to support their previous children.
There are no words.....
I have personal experience with two separate issues that just cause my blood pressure to skyrocket when I read a statement like “...Children always are better with their biological parents...”
In the first case, I know a man that had a relationship with a woman that resulted in two children. A massive mistake as he admits (not the kids, the relationship) He went to jail for assault, did his time, and turned his life around. He now has legal custody of the two children, who with the help of their paternal grandparents and a capable father (him) are coming around nicely. But while he was in jail and during the time afterwards when he fought for the kids, the DYS mandated that the kids lived with their mother. She is a schizophrenic prostitute who refused to take her medication living in the same house with her convicted pedophile father, and was also engaging in illegal scams. But no matter what, it was only when their father got out of jail, turned his life around and went to court for full time custody of those kids did he get them. DYS would not even consider letting the paternal grandparents have custody. In those two years he was in jail, plus the years after that this fellow fought for custody, those kids were in dire danger (and may have suffered abuse) and did suffer psychological damage. All because the state has the motto “the mother is AlWAYS best for the children”. If this guy had been one of those guys like the majority of those you hear about, those kids would be screwed for life.
In another situation, I know a woman who had a sister that married a Greek guy, had six or seven kids by him, and he took all their money and disappeared one day and went back to Greece without a word. These kids were all about a year apart. The mother was not bad or evil, just slow and not really suited to raising one kid on her own (never mind seven) and when DYS finally got word of it, they were living in an apartment littered with dog feces, partially clothed, feeding themselves on Cheerios and sour milk. The woman’s sister (who had a husband and two kids of her own, living in a small apartment of her own) had to fight to take custody of these seven kids which she did. For several years, they raised these kids as their own, who turned out to be wonderful (one is an officer in the Army now and just came back from Iraq) but this was all done against the will of the state. They had to fight for those kids. Eventually, the biological mother got her act together and got her kids back, but the state fought as hard as it could to destroy the lives of those kids by ensuring they were with their “biological mother” because that is what the state says is “best”. It was only through the compassion, diligence and hard work of her sister and husband that these kids were not lost forever in that shit-hole DYS (Department of Youth Services) system.
And these are just two examples. The fixation on the biological mother is, in my opinion, criminal. While it may be true in many cases, that they treat it as an absolute is an abomination.
She absolutely does NOT do that all by herself. She had the help of at least three guys who knocked her up.
She's just a welfare deadbeat expecting to get handouts so support herself and is using her children to accomplish it.
This is beyond disgusting.
Nobody owes her ANYTHING.
That is not what I advocate, giving the state carte blanche to decide.
What I advocate against is the absolute slavish devotion by the state the children stay with their biological parents, which in many (if not most) cases means the biological mother.
Thank you.
I agree with you. I feel badly for the children.
Fine, you deadbeat. Provide it yourself.
this woman is insane on so many levels. poor kids. did you read the part about the names for the ones whose father is Garry? what’s up with these made up names?
I’m somewhat amazed that she’s been able to afford health insurance to keep popping them out. /sarc
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