Well, providing love and caring doesn’t seem to work. Nor does tolerance. Nor does acceptance.
There is only one thing to know. The people on the other side of the wall want you dead and will not stop until you are.
So you have a choice. Continue being bombarded and killed or destroy your enemy.
Yeah, sure, kill and destroy your enemy, except they’re going to do a half assed measure that’s going to to be worse than doing nothing. They’d be better off staying home and hoping the next rocket doesn’t hit their house.