They want a trophy husband and will still not be satisfied by the marriage.
The baby was an accessory. Go to the store/sperm bank and pick one out. Now add an adult man to that equation.
This is a life?
Not much of a life for the poor child. These women should get pet lizards instead. What they are doing to their children is evil.
Why Bother
Kim du Toit
February 13, 2008
7:22 AM CST
The non-lawyer half of the InstaCouple says this:
“Nowadays, for many men, the negatives of marriage for men often outweigh the positives. Therefore, they engage in it less often. Not because they are bad, not because they are perpetual adolescents, but because they have weighed the pros and cons of marriage in a rational manner and found the institution to be lacking for them.”
I think women don’t understand how clinical men can be when it comes to analyzing a relationship. (Note: just because we don’t talk about our relationship with you, doesn’t mean we don’t analyze it.)
Here’s how I explain it. I think that men keep a running ledger going in their subconscious—all the good/great things about their relationship on the one side, and all the bad/terrible things on the other. At some point or another, if the perceived negatives outweigh the positives, the man will quit the relationship—I mean, just bail out of the whole thing—and usually with a swiftness and finality which confounds women.
Because we’re guys, we don’t talk about this much—even, or especially with other men, and hardly ever with women. But it’s a plain fact.
Now, because we’re guys, certain things have a disproportionate effect on both the good and bad things: on the good side, sex, food and shared interests being probably the best examples; on the bad, infidelity, constant nagging and invasion of privacy constitute the negative. The degree of each, good or bad, will vary among individual men, of course. Some men will put up with almost anything if the sex is of the “bed on fire” variety, for instance, while others will walk out of a relationship for something as trifling as compulsory weekly visits to Mom (hers)......
More goodness and truth:
http://www.theothersideofkim.com/index.php/tos/single/11474
My wife doesn’t appreciate me. I consider myself a trophy husband, but she doesn’t.
Yesterday, I fixed my wifes LCD monitor yesterday by desoldering 4 capacitors on the inverter board and soldering 4 new ones in I got at radio shack. Cost me 6 bucks. Most would have bought her a new monitor. She called me a Geek.
The day before I cleaned the chimney.
The day before I split wood and gave her a massage.
I look great and am physically fit. I’ve fathered 3 kids and homeschooled my stepson.