First time I've ever heard you quote Miss Manners. This could become an FR "Stune Your Beebers" moment. Check my tag line.
Ah, you missed me on the Kobe threads! I was the one who was shocked at the "victim" showing up in court in a white skirt, black hose, and white shoes.
I am all about the propriety - of demeanor, decorum, and accessories. :)