[KosmicKitty]

If a loved one of yours died, would you want pictures of them right after they died?

But, these parents didn't have a chance for a picture of a living child.

I've lost 3, only have an ultrasound of one - I totally understand, even though they were never born, they were still my children and still very much loved!!

[Blogger]

I concede that. I haven't lost a child. But I think such a vivid reminder would be very difficult to continually relive. In life, we have pain, but we can't live there.