You can't buy the land unless you sign agreement to the HOA's regs, if you sign the agreement with no intention of abiding by them, you comitted fraud, and you WILL lose your property.
Your choice was made at the time that you decided to purchase property regulated by prevailing laws.
You can't chose to disregard prevailing laws.
No, your premise is a fraud - HOA's rules and regulations do not trump individual rights to one's property. Additionally HOA are not the be all and end all of making any and all regulations they want. Can they decide not to sell to different ethnic groups?, Can they decide not to sell to men? Of course not.
The premise of many HOA's is completely flawed. They have anotied themselves rulers of land they don't own...(once it is sold)..and are doing such under the guise of majority rule makes law within specific land zone. A terrible philosophy.