Scary thing is, if you give the "wrong" answer to some of those questions, in some states it will either put you in direct violation of state law, or at least provide what the state recognizes as "probable cause" for a visit by child welfare workers. Will the doctor then report you?
If you ever give a doctor knowledge of unlawful activity, they can report you and in some cases like suspected child abuse are required to report you to the police. Doctors are not priests and will turn over medical records if ordered by a court. They have been trained in a new humanism code of amoral "ethics" so if you expect them to interact with you in an ethical way by Western standards, they may not. You have to check on them and make sure they are not wackos/moonbats.
Be real careful that your kids understand that doctors (teachers, police officers, etc.) are not their best friends and blabbing unnecessarily or to get attention is not to their advantage. Your medical record will become a part of a national computer system sooner or later so keep it in a way that will look pretty to employers, insurers and cops.