Yes, I'm sure I would too... though women are
often frowned upon for having tempers like men.
Most of what I've been able to find & read relate to his
death & burial, usually making it a big point that his grave
is still unknown to us.... but, that was exactly the idea. Even
then he & his people are portrayed mostly as blood loving.
His grave is unmarked and unknown because he did not wish to be worshipped as a god (which some of his people were starting to do). He was a big believer in God, though it was not the Judeo-Christian concept of God. He believed that for a man to be worshipped as a god was blasphemous and weakened the people.
This should interest you, then; Ghengis often sent women (but not courtesans) as ambassadors, with a suitable guard party. An absolutely astounding idea for the 1200s...