The problem that the Calvinist has is the same that the Arminian has.
You do not know for sure you are the 'elect' and thus, may not make it to the end!
In fact, the good works that you do may be itself a delusion from wrong motives.
Calvinism has no more assurance of eternal security in the practical sense, then does Arminianism.
"Without ... this --- religion is but a shell: holy services are dull and irksome."
"Joy in God, which is the soul and essence of worship, is unknown. Sacraments, prayer-meetings, religious services, labours of charity, will not make up for the living God."
"How much of unreality there may be in the religious life of our age, it is for each individual to determine for himself, that he may not be deceived nor lose his reward."(1)
"All unreality is weakness as well as irksomeness; and the sooner that we are ... stripped of unreality --- the better, both for peace and for usefulness."