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How mindfulness could make you selfish
BBC ^ | August 16, 2021 | David Robson

Posted on 08/21/2021 6:31:35 AM PDT by BlackAdderess

Mindfulness is said to do many things for our psyche: it can increase our self-control, sharpen our concentration, extend our working memory and boost our mental flexibility. With practice, we should become less emotionally reactive – allowing us to deal with our problems more calmly.

One ‘benefit’ that you might not expect to gain, however, is heightened egotism. Yet a recent study suggests that, in some contexts, practicing mindfulness really can exaggerate some people’s selfish tendencies. With their increased inward focus, they seem to forget about others, and are less willing to help those in need.

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Is anyone going to admit that Evangelicals have been saying this since the days of Ronald Reagan? Probably not.
1 posted on 08/21/2021 6:31:35 AM PDT by BlackAdderess
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To: BlackAdderess

I can see how if you pay attention and accomplish more you can view others as the dipshits and dumbasses they are.


2 posted on 08/21/2021 6:48:07 AM PDT by ImJustAnotherOkie (All I know is The I read in the papers.)
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To: ImJustAnotherOkie

That’s exactly it. Altruism - and the political power that benefits from it - requires one-eye-closed delusion.


3 posted on 08/21/2021 6:51:02 AM PDT by Mr. Jeeves ([CTRL]-[GALT]-[DELETE])
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To: BlackAdderess

Mindfulness might also urge us to become sensitive to the plights of others as well. Mindfulness is a welcome alternative to the slug mentality of daytime television and willful ignorance. And, I would suggest, that selfishness is its own self-sufficient demon and doesn’t need any help at all from mindfulness.

Without knocking Christianity but some self-styled Christians, the ego on some of them—that they are superior and first to be saved. And selfishness? Try sitting in the regular pew seat of some of the Lutheran biddies where I once went to church and see what selfishness manifests.

Case in point. Two of the least mindful and most “devout Catholics” on the planet are Joe Biden and Nancy Pelosi.


4 posted on 08/21/2021 6:53:00 AM PDT by StAntKnee (Add your own danged sarc tag)
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To: BlackAdderess

The most disturbing thing about the article was the stock photo of the otherwise beautiful woman who decided to deface herself with a nose ring and purple hair.


5 posted on 08/21/2021 6:53:49 AM PDT by Dr. Sivana (There is no salvation in politics.)
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To: ImJustAnotherOkie

Ha!

Once you become enlightened, it’s hard not to look down on the Little People.


6 posted on 08/21/2021 6:53:50 AM PDT by Not_Who_U_Think
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To: ImJustAnotherOkie

I can see that too.


7 posted on 08/21/2021 6:56:37 AM PDT by grimalkin (Communism is the final logic of the dehumanization of man. -Fulton J. Sheen)
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To: StAntKnee

I tend to do better when I focus outward, on my environment, rather than drilling down through the layers of my own psyche.


8 posted on 08/21/2021 6:58:15 AM PDT by BlackAdderess (Welcome to the libertarian fire sale, here’s your accordion)
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To: StAntKnee

There are Christians, and there are “professing” Christians like Biden and Pelosi. Professing Christians like them aren’t actual Christians.


9 posted on 08/21/2021 6:58:46 AM PDT by MayflowerMadam (While the foundations are being destroyed, what are the righteous doing?)
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To: StAntKnee

Biden and Pelosi express the self-esteem of modern pop religion - certain standards and doctrines don’t apply to them because they are so special and enlightened. They think the Church should bend to them.


10 posted on 08/21/2021 6:59:24 AM PDT by Wilhelm Tell (True or False? This is not a tag line.)
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To: StAntKnee

exactly!

Stoicism is often thrown into the selfish category, but selfishness can also be a very good trait. If you do not first take care of yourself and balance your reactions to others, you cannot care for anyone else.


11 posted on 08/21/2021 7:47:26 AM PDT by Katya (lacking in the feelings department, )
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To: BlackAdderess

“Mindfulness” is a Buddhist meditation construct. It is man-centered and Pagan.


12 posted on 08/21/2021 7:48:23 AM PDT by ecomcon
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To: BlackAdderess

It’s almost like, focusing on God and trying to discern his will, and what he wants you to do for others is the way.

Weird... who knew?


13 posted on 08/21/2021 7:53:50 AM PDT by DesertRhino (A coup government may not claim the protection of the same constitution it overthrew. )
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To: DesertRhino

Lol! Funny how that works


14 posted on 08/21/2021 7:55:33 AM PDT by BlackAdderess (Welcome to the libertarian fire sale, here’s your accordion)
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To: BlackAdderess

Mindfulness, at its core, is all about observing what is going on around you specifically your environment.


15 posted on 08/21/2021 8:02:15 AM PDT by be-baw
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To: ecomcon

Buddhism, like Christianity, has been thoroughly ruined by self-centered, Western materialistic culture, which has been further ruined by marxism. If you go back to the roots, mindfulness is a practice that would solve a lot of problems generated by the mindless morons in this country. Maybe that’s why there are suddenly articles criticizing it. Calm, helpful people who exercise self control and can’t be bribed or manipulated are an enormous threat to the current tyrannical regime.


16 posted on 08/21/2021 8:16:07 AM PDT by meowmeow (In Loving Memory of Our Dear Viking Kitty (1987-2006))
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To: BlackAdderess

Let’s face it: every behavior that was considered a virtue in our youth now makes us: fascist, racist, sexist and homo(trans)-phobic.


17 posted on 08/21/2021 8:18:14 AM PDT by rbg81 (Truth is stranger than fiction)
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To: BlackAdderess

Mindfulness that inner voice the reminds us somebody may be watching you.


18 posted on 08/21/2021 8:18:47 AM PDT by Vaduz (women and children to be impacIQ of chimpsted the most.)
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To: BlackAdderess

It seems to me “mindfulness” COULD be a reaction to the loss of meaning in our current society. Increased anxiety, worry and outer chaos may send people to seek answers within themselves. It’s hard to say with certainty.

Several decades ago, I began to use a method then called biofeedback. It’s pretty simple and was not associated with any religious practice. I was having personal crises at the time- self-created as it turns out- but the biofeedback had a remarkable result for me. As my mental chatter began to quiet down, I started to pray- in earnest. I hadn’t done that except by rote and special occasions lol! I began reading the Bible (unheard of) and realized *I* was not the center of the universe! At any rate, the experience actually brought me closer to a God I wasn’t convinced was there, and to Christ as the living, saving presence of my life.

I had been living from the outside in, but gradually began from the inside out. The effect was thinking more, not less, of others, of my self-centeredness and its effect on others. That’s just my experience- there are many methods to “be still and know that I am God”.


19 posted on 08/21/2021 8:25:04 AM PDT by SE Mom (Screaming Eagle mom)
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To: BlackAdderess

There are two kinds of people in this world. Those that agree with me and those that are wrong.


20 posted on 08/21/2021 8:54:42 AM PDT by BipolarBob (I thought it was okay to leave my trash here. The sign said "Fine for littering".)
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