kudos to NY Times for publishing...
I volunteer in a crisis pregnancy center as a dad coach, an this is an accurate representation (at least up to the pay wall). We take care of the women and men from moment of positive pregnancy test to the baby’s second birthday. We offer “ mommy money” and “daddy dollars” for classes taken, homework finished, and outside reading done. These credits can buy very high quality clothes and equipment.
I cannot abide the false claim that pro-life means pro-birth, insinuating that the women are forgotten after the baby is born. That.is.a.lie.
NARAL Pro-Choice America calls pregnancy center activists anti-choice extremists who lie to and mislead women to prevent them from considering abortion. Planned Parenthood clinics, like one in Memphis, report that pregnancy center volunteers try to lure women away from their doors with gift bags or protest vigils. All of that is directed at shaming patients who come for abortions, and stigmatizing abortion, which is a part of health care, said Aimee Lewis, a vice president for Planned Parenthood of Tennessee and North Mississippi. They are fake clinics.
The job is to not just say, Hey, this is a real life inside of you, you need to save it. Thats not going to accomplish anything, Ms. Ramsey, 31, said. It is to get her to see that whatever she thinks is too big for her to handle, she can actually handle it.
I dont ever look at a baby and think, This is going to make this girls life way worse, she said. When I see people that are living in poverty, I dont look at it like, those people shouldnt have a kid because they arent going to take care of it. I look at it as, Those people arent in a good situation; how can we help them be in a better situation, with or without a kid?
She offers extra points for Baby Bucks if they go to church. I cant lie, she said. Ultimately, I just dont think that there can be an abundant life without Jesus. If they say thats manipulative and a secret tactic, then I will not apologize for it. - c