Embodiedness doesn't matter. Matter doesn't matter.
Being male or female therefore doesn't matter. It has no significance and God --- they say --- doesn't really care what you do with your body, because you're basically a Will in an irrelevant flesh costume.
This is radically anti-Incarnational and anti-Sacramental.
It follows that male-female doesn't matter, virginal-spousal doesn't matter. What St. Paul called the Great Mystery (Christ/Bridegroom, Church/Bride) is just, as they say, a "construct," it has no innate significance.
It's the denial of the nuptial design of the body as a Sign.
It strips out the embodied design of the two Sacraments of Vocation --- Holy Matrimony and Holy Orders --- in which maleness and femaleness actually matter.
Does that make sense?
This sounds like Gnosticism.