Whoa! Don’t blame God. God shed His own blood on the cross so that everyone, EVERYONE, decides his or her own fate. God does not force Himself on a anyone.
You mean like Saul on the road to Damascus?
Or Moses and the burning bush?
Or Jonah going to Ninevah?
Or David with the Sheep parable (regarding Bathsheba)?
Or Gideon and his tests for God?