Please excuse post#8.
https://www.amazon.com/s?k=Joys+of+Muslim+Women+By+Nonie+Darwish&ie=UTF8&link_code=qs&sourceid=Mozilla-search&tag=mozilla-20
I once had a coworker from Jordan who basicaly said to me try it you would like it. I would be oh so much happier having rules and being protected.