“Homosexual thoughts does not make you a homosexual. “
Actually it does. Wanting a same sex person to commit a sex act on you is a sin. That makes you homo/bisexual.
To put it crudely:
A guy sucking a guy does not make him gay. If it was that or his child dies, he could do it and not be gay. He doesn’t have to be aroused to do it.
A guy wanting a guy to suck him makes him gay because he has to get aroused to do it.
Trust me, there are a lot of guys who want a guy to do them who swear they are not gay. In reality, it’s the exact opposite. They are gay for wanting it to be done.
There is a difference between being attracted to women and wanting to have an affair. The mere thought makes you guilty