Well, I’m sure the two of you have more experience than I do at the moment, or at least access to personal experience. So I’ll just leave it at that.
I’ll just stick with the views I espoused upthread about remarriage being forgivable and then pray that corruption gets purged from all churches.
Case in point: RFK Jr. Got an annulment from wife number one who he was married to for 13 years and had a couple of kids with so he could get remarried in the church and take communion. AND wife wife number one contested it all the way.
Hey I’m Catholic. I love the church but I also understand how it works. All institutions have safety valves. Annulment is the remarriage and communion safety valve.