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Muslim woman feels “grief and loss” after abortions
CLINICQUOTES.COM ^ | September 22, 2016 | Sarah Terzo

Posted on 10/28/2016 11:34:27 PM PDT by Morgana

From a Muslim woman who regretted her two abortions:

“ I didn’t want to have the abortion. My daughter was now three years old and I felt ready for another child. He was absolutely certain that he didn’t want another child. He had two; that was all he wanted. Our relationship was bad. I didn’t want sex; he wanted it..…

I played courageous and went and had the abortion. I was trying to save my pride and had the abortion in a very angry state. I didn’t have time to dig too deeply into my feelings. Later on I felt that I had been stupid. It was my right to have the baby. It was more part of me than him. If he can make a decision that he doesn’t want a child, than I can make a decision that I do want it.…

Now, eight months after the first abortion in the US I was to have another. My husband did try to be kind, but it didn’t help.… I was deeply scarred from the first abortion and all the conflict over contraception…

Now if the situation were to be mentioned, he would say that it was my decision. He would deny responsibility for the decisions to have the abortions. He might say it was our decision, but more mine – it’s as if he would try to block it from his mind. We have never really talked about it, but I think that’s what he’d say…

As Muslims we had no particular religious conflicts regarding the abortions. I was educated religiously that up until 120 days the fetus has no soul – that you’re not dealing with a human being up to that point.… My conflict about having the abortions stemmed from my feminine, maternal instinct, not from my religion. I felt grief and loss, not guilt.”

Miriam Claire The Abortion Dilemma: Personal Views on a Public Issue (New York: Insight Books, 1995) 117 – 119


TOPICS: Islam; Moral Issues
KEYWORDS: abortion; clinicquotes; islam; muslima; prolife; theysaidit

1 posted on 10/28/2016 11:34:27 PM PDT by Morgana
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To: Morgana

“As Muslims we had no particular religious conflicts regarding the abortions. I was educated religiously that up until 120 days the fetus has no soul – that you’re not dealing with a human being up to that point.…”

I did not know that. It explains a lot.


2 posted on 10/28/2016 11:41:49 PM PDT by ifinnegan (Democrats kill babies and harvest their organs to sell)
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To: Morgana

They blow up so fast anyway.....


3 posted on 10/28/2016 11:46:28 PM PDT by matthew fuller (In honor of the Black Lives Matter organization, Nov. 9 is reserved for their exclusive voting day.)
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To: ifinnegan
I occasionally try to explain to rather naive but very sincere social conservatives that we really don't have a moral common ground with mohammedans.

I try to explain that their rules are riddled with escape clauses.

I try.

4 posted on 10/28/2016 11:49:59 PM PDT by Harmless Teddy Bear (Not a Romantic, not a hero worshiper and stop trying to tug my heartstrings. It tickles!)
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To: Harmless Teddy Bear

The best one I heard was in the Army before going to ‘stan from a muslim doing a “cultural training” before deployment. He went: “in islam only the first sip of alcohol is sinful, after that it is not on you, you can get drunk”

and everything else is like that.

One day Mohammed wanted to screw his son’s wife. He became obsessed with it. He went to his wife Aisha to explain all kinds of BS to her how God just told him it was OK in this case. She replied: “Mohammed, there is nothing that your God does not allow you to do!!”

Basically it is witchcraft


5 posted on 10/29/2016 12:46:15 AM PDT by JudgemAll (Democrats Fed. job-security Whorocracy & hate:hypocrites must be gay like us or be tested/crucified)
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To: Morgana

So she feels guilt because of hormones and not over moral failure.

Probably pretty typical.


6 posted on 10/29/2016 4:37:58 AM PDT by metmom (...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith...)
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To: Morgana

It’s a wonder that any Muslim kid survives at all...in one piece.


7 posted on 10/29/2016 5:23:33 AM PDT by VanDeKoik
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To: JudgemAll

“Basically it is witchcraft”

More like the “wishcraft” of a 7th century murdering psychopath/megalomaniac.


8 posted on 10/29/2016 7:52:56 AM PDT by This I Wonder32460
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