I attend a Tridentine Rite parish. There are no "extraordinary ministers," and there are no female altar servers.
You might want to consider looking around for a similar parish in your area. It sure helps avoid all the nonsense that passes for "Catholicism" these days.
11 posted on 10/26/2015 6:25:01 PM PDT by Alberta's Child
("It doesn't work for me. I gotta have more cowbell!")