We pity people who suffer. That’s fine. That’s the Church teaching on it. Gays are supposed to not engage in homosexual behavior. Celibate people as well. Divorced people waiting for annulments are not supposed to be dating. For instance.
What’s wrong with pity?
It’s nit derogatory. People get grace for suffering.
Yeah, I can pity homosexuals, instead of ascribing Satanic to them.