“Correct? Am I missing something in this secular marriage is legitimate argument?”
If I understood JesusIsLord correctly, yes. He was speaking of that instituted by God the Father and reaffirmed by Jesus: “For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”
That’s for all mankind. No, “gay marriage” is not remotely accepted by God, and yes we now have an absolute mess on our hands as a society. Not sure how we work it out when “things fall apart” (see: Yeats’ SECOND COMING).
If I understood JesusIsLord correctly, yes. He was speaking of that instituted by God the Father and reaffirmed by Jesus: “For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”
That doesn't sound like "secular marriage" to me.