Posted on 03/04/2015 6:09:01 AM PST by Gamecock
Earlier this week, the Dallas Observer published a cover story about a former minister who was recently convicted of sexually abusing children in Mississippi. According to the article, prior to this offender getting caught for these crimes, he served as a youth minister in a Dallas area megachurch. The story reports that while serving in that position, a minor who had been part of the youth group stepped forward and disclosed to another pastor on staff that this individual had sexually abused him. The article reported that instead of reporting the youth minister to the police, the megachurch allowed him to leave town where he eventually found employment at another church. Not only did the church fail to report the offense and warn others about this offender, but it made no effort to find out if there were others who may have also been victimized.
Why do so many churches fail to do the right thing when they learn that one of their own has been accused of sexual abuse? All too often its because the victimized are repeatedly overshadowed by the need to protect a righteous reputation. Im afraid its a rationale embraced by so many church leaders because its convenient and sounds so godly. Here is an example of this distorted thought process:
The reputation of the church will be damaged when the public learns that it employed an alleged child molester -> a church whose reputation is damaged will lose members -> a church that loses members is a church that loses income -> a church that loses income is a church that will be required to tighten its budget, including reducing salaries and laying off staff -> a dwindling church is a church that has less relevance in the community -> a church that has less relevance in the community is a church that is failing to impact the world for Jesus.
Tragically, this type of response to the evils of abuse destroys lives, emboldens offenders, and produces churches that are rotting at the core. Theres nothing righteous about it.
What is the right thing to do when a church learns that one of its own has been accused of victimizing a child? First and foremost, it must immediately turn its focus and care away from institutional reputation and towards the victimized and the vulnerable. Though there are multitudes of ways this can be done, let me suggest three basic first steps for a church that cares:
How would things be different if more churches cared by encouraging and assisting victims to report these crimes to the police? How would things be different if more churches cared by informing their congregations about the allegations made against tone of their own, knowing that there may be other victims? How would things be different if more churches cared by making efforts to locate and notify former families of the church about an alleged offender who had access to their children? How would things be different if more churches cared by reaching out to other survivors in their congregations who are struggling after hearing about an allegation of sexual abuse? How would things be different if more churches simply cared?
Though I dont know the answer to all of these difficult and painful questions, I do know that a caring church reflects Jesus by treasuring, protecting, and empowering the victimized and the vulnerable.
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Good post
I think this reflects one of the problems of non-denominational churches. In most denominations you can't simply change churches. In my own denomination, even as a member, you are required to have a letter of transfer from your old church. Keeps those undergoing church disciple from jumping from church to church.
This is a great point. The biggest issue with non-denoms IMO is accountability, whether it's to an organization or even to a written Statement of Faith. They simply don't have an accountability to anyone higher than themselves, and therefore nothing external to keep them in check morally and theologically, and nothing in writing that informs the congregation about what is actually believed by the institution and it's pastorate.
He was immediately removed from his ministry and the pastor told the entire congregation of the event and reported it to the police.. no cover up ...
It seems to me that the underlying premise to that statement is in error and I wonder if you see that the statement itself is correct regardless. The "accountability" should be to Christ and His written word. Creating a hierarchy of so called "denominations" is Nicolaitanism. It's basically the idea of a "ruling class" over the people. Christ spoke against it in Matthew 20:26 and again in Revelation.
So while your statement is correct in that they don't recognize the authority of Christ the authority of a ruling class is as much in error.
That's exactly the way it should be handled.
When asked, Jesus said “Church discipline is maintained by working things up the chain of command...”
At least among Baptists, the hiring of a new pastor requires a vote by either the deacons or the congregation as a whole. It is upon them to exercise due diligence...and they are the ones who will suffer if they do not.
I hate to say it but any adult WANTING to work with young people should be double watched no matter the setup.
And the recommendations are all Scripturally sound.
We are told in 1 Corinthians how to deal with immorality within the church.
The biggest problem with the whole issue is how it’s dealt with. It’s virtually impossible to make any guarantees that a person perpetrating these kinds of crimes can be stopped before hand.
However, once it’s known, there’s simply no excuse for not dealing with it in the correct way and moving the guy around is NOT the right way.
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