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To: cuban leaf
My wife and I have a phrase we use when one of us sees something they really want: “If only I had THAT, my life would be utterly complete.”

We have a similar phrase in our house, that goes something like this: "what will you do with that, thirty minutes after you've bought it?" If it's going to sit on a shelf unseen, or go into a box, we usually don't buy it as a matter of principle. Sometimes to practice self-discipline, we'll ask each other "did you want that before you saw it in the store?" If the answer is "no", we challenge ourselves to hold off on the purchase until a later date. We find that oftentimes the "wanting" goes away as soon as we leave the store. We might even say "no" to something we could otherwise afford, just to prove that we're the masters of our wallets, and not the other way around.

11 posted on 01/12/2015 10:58:00 AM PST by Alex Murphy ("the defacto Leader of the FR Calvinist Protestant Brigades")
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To: Alex Murphy
Sometimes to practice self-discipline, we'll ask each other "did you want that before you saw it in the store?" If the answer is "no", we challenge ourselves to hold off on the purchase until a later date.

That's a great idea!

20 posted on 01/13/2015 2:42:15 PM PST by Grateful2God (And Mary kept all these things, and pondered them in her heart.)
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