[NYer]

I have been divorced and remarried and I do not go to communion.

I am divorced but chose not to remarry. I knew I was making a mistake when I married but did it all the same. I took vows in the presence of God and continue to respect those vows. Several catholic priests, knowing the circumstances behind the divorce, recommended an annulment. I chose to follow my own conscience.

[defconw]

I know it's super hard, but I admire both of you for your faith. You do what the Church and your heart tell you. So many people just think the Church is being "mean" making these rules.

On the contrary, it's not about meanness, it's about protecting our souls. I think to many people think they have to go to Communion and that the collective "we" have become far to casual in partaking of the Eucharist. I used to tell my Confirmation classes we are not lining up for a bag of popcorn. Pay attention to what you are doing. Otherwise you might as well not go up there or just get the blessing. That works as well. But I could pick nits all day. I better be careful. I am not without sin.

[ravenwolf]

<<<<< I chose to follow my own conscience.>>>>>

I believe that is the best guide in a case where the damage has already been done.